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How Do I Find Out What MILF Means?
Jul 19th
There are plenty of times that you may have heard the term MILF. There are a lot of people that actually don’t even know what this term means. It is actually a pretty popular term with younger people. You will find that you may actually be a MILF and not even know it. There are a lot of different ways that you can find out what this term means.
Forums
Whenever you are in doubt of what something like MILF means, simply check out an adult dating forum or a swinger’s forum. The internet tends to use acronyms whenever they are talking about specific things to get the point across quicker and a lot easier. These are great places to find out what a lot of acronyms mean.
Definition
Basically, a MILF stands for Mum I’d Like to Fuck. People that are looking for MILFs are looking for mothers that are still considered to be sexy and alluring. If a woman claims that she is a MILF then this means that she does have at least one child.
Variations
While MILF is the most common variation of this there are also DILFs. DILF are Dad I’d Like to Fuck. A GILF is a Grandmother or even Grandfather I’d Like to Fuck. There are several different types of ILFs that are out there. Basically, it is something that people use to say that kids have not slowed down the sexuality or their looks. Many people assume when a person has a child that they stop having sex, this couldn’t be further from the truth.
What Is Water Sports?
Jun 13th
Water sports would be a subcategory of BDSM. It’s more common in the gay community, but anyone can develop this fetish. Water sports refers to those who enjoy playing in urine.
Golden Showers
A golden shower is when one person urinates on the other for sexual enjoyment. This can be done because one partner just has a fetish for urine, or as part of humiliation games. When done in swingers or BDSM clubs, this activity is typically restricted to the shower areas for cleanliness purposes.
Variations
While a golden shower is simply one person peeing on another, there are some variations. Golden slippers is a variation that refers to lesbian/ bisexual play where two women urinate and roll around in it during sex. A plastic sheet is usually laid down on the surface. The term can also refer to women who enjoy that activity.
A Gold Rush is another term that is frequently used with water sports. This typically refers to a man who is in a gay gang bang situation and the other men piss on him at once.
Is it Safe?
Since safety should be a concern for anyone who is sexually active, the question may arise about safety in water sports. While it’s true that your urine is sterile to you, it’s not for others. This being said, it’s not a good idea to consume it. It’s also good to make sure you don’t have any kind of infection when you play. Even if it’s not an STD other infections can be spread through the bacteria in urine. Always be as clean as possible when practicing water sports.
What Is Soft Swing?
May 28th
Soft swing is a term you may see and hear often with in the swinging community. Since swingers are in to a variety of different things, several terms have popped up describing the activities that couples are interested in. Soft swing is just one of these many terms.
What It Means
Soft swing refers to couples who enjoy attending swinger’s events, but they only participate with one another. Some people consider them voyeurs among the community. Many people who practice soft swing will vary slightly on their rules. Here are just a few of the variations.
Voyeurism And Exhibitionism
The most common form of soft swinging is the voyeur couple. These swingers will go to events and watch other couples, and then play with each other. Other couples will watch, then play and allow others to watch. Some couples enjoy being watched, and soft swinging gives them an outlet for this without crossing their line of being with others. This keeps the intimacy between them personal while still allowing them to explore fantasies.
Oral Sex
Some couples who consider themselves soft swingers will still allow their partners to have oral sex with others. This will happen only in the company of both partners, and there are rules associated. Typically when they are ready for penetration they will get together with one another. This type of arrangement requires a lot of trust and very strict rules, as things can get heated and in the moment the rules could easily be broken.
Soft swing is common among people who are new to swinging, and also among people who want to play but don’t want to break the vows they created with marriage or partnership.
For A Female, What Does BBW Mean?
Apr 27th
In the world of online dating many acronyms pop up to describe certain attributes or wants. When you start looking through different profiles, some of these may sound foreign. If you don’t understand an acronym, it can become frustrating to figure out what it means. Many dating sites have a separate section for BBWs. BBW itself stands for ‘big beautiful woman’ but there are a couple variations on this.
How Big is Big?
BBW can encompass a variety of sizes and shapes. Many people consider themselves BBWs if they are just slightly overweight. This term can encompass women that are slightly chunky to morbidly obese. Generally speaking the average woman who describes herself as a BBW will be more Rubenesque and curvy, not necessarily ‘fat’.
BBBW
Sometimes you will see the BBBW variation of this term. This generally means ‘big beautiful black woman’ and is used to further differentiate who they are.
SSBBW
SSBBW stands for ‘super size big beautiful woman’ and this is typically used for women who are obese. Obesity doesn’t mean ugly in any sense, and many people with fetishes prefer larger women. Adding the super size in front of the term denotes they are larger.
BHM, BBM, and FFA
Other acronyms you may run across are BHM, BBM, and FFA. BHM stands for ‘big handsome man’ and BBM stands for ‘big beautiful man’. It’s common to see this used in couples ads for those looking for other couples or singles to bring in the bedroom. Another acronym commonly used is FFA, which means female fat admirers. Seeing this on a profile means a man is looking for a larger man or woman to be with.
A Swinger Advert Says DDF? (Drug, Disease Free)
Mar 22nd
It’s common to find profiles and swinger adverts with slang or acronyms in them. It’s easier to type out this way, and most people who are in to the same activities will understand the terms. However, there is no way to know them all. DDF is one that is very common to see in adverts for swingers. DDF is short for ‘disease and drug free’.
DDF Variations
Seeing an advert with DDF signals that the person does not use drugs and keeps up on their STD testing. This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t use safety, it just means they are a responsible adult. Sometimes you will see a profile that says DDF 420F, this means they don’t use drugs, but they aren’t opposed to those who use marijuana occasionally for fun. You may also see someone who write ’420 Friendly, DF’, this means they smoke marijuana and are disease free.
Other Common Swinger Acronyms
Some other acronyms you can find will be CPL (couple), MBA (married but available), NSA (no strings attached), LFG (looking for group), IRL (in real life), W/E or VWE (well endowed and very well endowed), among others. Sometimes you will see profiles that use a lot of BDSM slang. For these, you can find the definitions online or just ask them. When someone starts using pretty out there acronyms they are typically laid back enough to explain what they mean if you just ask.
As a general rule of thumb, if the profile has lots of acronyms and you don’t understand them, it’s a good chance that you may not be compatible with that person. Usually when someone starts using lots of acronyms it’s because they are looking for very specific people, and those people will understand most of what they are saying.
What Does It Mean When Someone Is Into BDSM?
Feb 27th
When it comes to the world of adult dating, swinging and sex, there are many different fetishes people can have. BDSM is a common fetish, and it can incorporate many different things. In general, the term BDSM is short for ‘bondage, domination, sadism, and masochism’. The term is used broadly to describe people with any number of fetishes.
Bondage And Discipline
Bondage and discipline describes those who enjoy being bound, and those who enjoy the idea of being or having sexual slaves. This can be mild, from tying up to a bed, to more extreme, like using bondage wheels. Some of the sub categories of this would be CNC (consensual non-consent), Slaves, domination, and full submission.
Sadism And Masochism
Those who enjoy inflicting or receiving pain are typically in to the S&M aspect of BDSM. Again, this can vary in severity, from light spanking to full whipping. Some of the sub categories and acronyms you will find with this would be OTK (over the knee – refers to spanking), CP ( corporal punishment), CBT (cock and ball torture), and many others.
Humiliation
Another aspect of BDSM is humiliation. This can take the form of public sex, and other activities that will create humiliation. It sounds bad, but those in to this get a rush from the humiliation aspect. It’s common to see these scenarios played out in swingers clubs since they provide a safe, non judgmental environment for people to play out their fantasies.
If you run across acronyms you don’t understand, you can either search for them online or simply ask the person who put them in to the profile or ad. Most of the time they will be open enough to explain it to you.
What Does DP Mean?
Jan 3rd
When you start playing in the world of adult relationships such as swinging and fetishes, you will start to see a lot of acronyms you may not understand. DP is one of these acronyms, and it is very common. DP stands for double penetration. In these scenarios a woman has sex with two men (or one man a sex toy) with on penetrating her vaginally and the other anally. There are several instances in which you may see this term.
Straight Couples
It’s not uncommon to find couples advertising looking for another man to join them in the bedroom for DP action. This is a common fantasy among women, and many men love the idea of having another man in the bedroom while they both pleasure a woman. If you are a single guy and interested in this finding a couple is probably the easiest route to take. Just keep in mind that you will be very close with the other man in the room, and the woman’s partner is going to have more say in the events than you will.
Greedy Girl Parties
If you are interested in trying DP, but don’t want to find another couple, or are a single woman, finding Greedy Girl parties may be a good way to experience this. Greedy girl parties are more of a gang bang situation, but double penetration is often involved. As the woman you can choose how many men you want to take on. As a man, you don’t have to worry about being in the middle of a couple and dealing with an alpha male.
Someone Has Said To Me WLTM – What Does This Mean?
Dec 12th
If you have had a person say to you WLTM, then you may be confused. You have probably gone over in your head several different possibilities but none of them sound quite right. This can make it difficult for you to be able to answer or respond to what they said. Make sure that you know what WLTM means before you get too heavily in talking to people online so that you don’t get too confused.
Definition
Basically, WLTM means Would Like To Meet. This is something that people will use whenever they are looking to meet new people. It can be used in dating sites or even for sites where people are looking for others to hook up with. Whether they WLTM a single and funny woman or WLTM a horny and willing man, there are plenty of different reasons to use WLTM.
Where To Go
If you find yourself often confused on what these acronyms mean, then you will find that this is something that can be remedied pretty easily. If you simply go to an adult dating site or a swinger’s forum you will be able to get some information on what exactly these terms mean.
Reason
The reason that people use so many acronyms online is because it will save time whenever they are typing. Also, whenever people are making their adverts they are usually only given so many words to use. Using acronyms when they can will allow people to be able to say a lot more using a lot less space.
Meaning Of LOL – Commonly Used Term In The Chat Rooms
Nov 12th
If you are in swingers chatrooms a lot, then you may wonder what the meaning of LOL is. This is something that can get confusing because you will probably see it a lot. LOL is a term that is used more commonly than anything else whenever you are in a chat room. Many people have ideas of what it means but not all of them are correct.
Definition
LOL means laugh out loud. This is something that people will say instead of a “ha ha” or “that’s funny”. It is basically a new way for people to tell others that they enjoyed what they said or what they think that they are funny. If somebody says LOL to you in a chat room, then they probably like you and are having fun talking to you.
Other LOLs
You may also find that a person will say LMAO or ROFLMAO. These are basically the same thing as LOL. LMAO means Laughing My Ass Of, it usually will just mean that they think something is really funny and deserves more than an LOL. If you see ROFLMAO, then this means Rolling On The Floor Laughing My Ass Off. People will generally say this whenever they think something is extremely funny.
Other Common Acronyms
You may also see things like BRB, TTYL. If a person says BRB, then they are telling you that they are stepping away from the computer and will Be Right Back. If you are saying goodbye to a person, then they may see TTYL or Talk To You Later.
For A Male, What Does VWE stand For?
Oct 30th
When you start looking through online personal ads or adverts, you may see some acronyms that you’ve not run across before. This can get confusing, and can be frustrating if you don’t understand what they mean. VWE is an acronym you will probably see often, and it’s good to familiarize yourself with some of these.
What It Means
VWE is an acronym for ‘very well endowed’. Of course, this refers to the size of a mans penis. You’ll see this in adverts where men are looking for sex only, as a long term partner usually won’t be overly concerned with the size. Most men who use this on their ads will offer photos as well.
Size Is Relative
It’s important to remember that men start talking about being well endowed, you may have a different idea of well endowed is. The average man is around 5 inches erect, so some men may think 6 is well endowed, while others consider 9 inches to be well endowed. The only way to find out is to ask. If you look at photos remember that camera angles can be tricky to judge, so this isn’t always as accurate either.
Why Is This Important?
Some people have fantasies about only being with large men. Some couples who practice cuckolding want a third man (or bull) who is very well endowed to add to the fantasy. For women, it’s the only way they find sex enjoyable. If you are a size queen, seeing the term VWE should signal this could be a potential match for you.